My Cat Suddenly Attacks Me, What Can I Do?


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By Alana Stevenson

Q: “My cat suddenly attacks me out of nowhere. There is no reason for it. I’ll be sitting there and he will look at me and pounce. He bites my ankles when I walk downstairs or come out of a room. It’s not all the time. It’s like he’s looking for trouble. When I yell No, he bites or attacks harder and runs away. I tried blowing on him, scruffing him, squirting him. When I try to pet him, he also bites me. Help! What should I do?” – Karen

You didn’t mention the age of your cat or if you have other cats in the house. If you are gone during the day and if he is an only cat, there is a good chance it is play aggression. Play aggression is play (from the cat’s perspective) but it is often misdirected onto inappropriate targets or the play can get out of hand. Cats who are raised as singletons (the only cat or animal in the home), cats weaned too early, and cats who are alone a lot frequently can exhibit overzealous play. To the cat, s/he is needing to release pent up energy and feels the need to hunt. Often, these kitties will stalk people or pounce and attack, and then run away.

Here are some tips to help:

1) Start playing in a way that stimulates your cat mentally and makes your cat feel good and relaxed afterwards. Cats want to hunt. Most toys are too big for cats and the way we play with cats can leave them feeling pent. When cats hunt, they see a small prey animal, crouch down low (not wanting to be noticed) and then wait for the right time to pounce. They watch the prey and strategize. When the prey animal realizes s/he is being stalked, the animal freezes and/or then tries to flee. This is the time most cats will pounce or go after prey. Prey wants to get away from the cat and hide. When we play with cats often we dangle toys over their heads or swing the toys towards them hoping the cats will jump for the toys or chase toys in midair. This is not the way real prey behaves, which can be frustrating for the cat.

Memorize the phrase “Play mimics prey.” Make toys slink or slither away from your cat. Allow your cat to watch the pole, string, or feather. Then stop moving it so it remains still. Your cat will most likely pounce after a few seconds. Allow your cat to play with the toy for a little bit, and then move the toy away from your cat again. Make the toy slither behind a sofa, or hide it under a blanket, pillow, or chair. Once your kitty has captured the toy a few more times, end play with a few treats or a mini-meal. Place the treats down next to the toy and then remove the toy. This will give your kitty a sense of accomplishment. Cats tend to hunt, eat, and sleep. Giving your cat some treats or food after a play session also will signal the end of play.

2) Avoid eye-contact when your cat is in the ‘mood’ to attack. Directly staring at your cat when your cat is pent or locks eyes with you will increase the aggression and can even create the attack. By casually looking away or averting your gaze, your cat will be calmer and many attacks can be prevented. You can also slowly blink at your cat, especially if your cat is nervous or if you have used harsh methods in the past. By relaxing your gaze and giving two or three slow, methodical blinks to your cat (glancing away between each blink), you are telling your cat that you are non-confrontational.

3) Don’t play with your hands. Always use pole toys, feathers, or small stuffed toys when you play with your cat. If you dangle your hands over your cat or encourage your cat to attack your hands, it will be very difficult for your cat to understand how to appropriately play with you.

4) Enrich the environment as best you can so that your cat gets more stimulation during the day. By adding window perches, cat towers and other vertical territory (places for your cat to climb), bird feeders at windows, cat fountains, and soft sleeping areas, your kitty’s environment will be more enjoyable and interesting. This will make your cat more relaxed.

5) No more punishments. Scolding, yelling at, squirting your cat with water, or blowing on your cat will usually make any forms of aggression much worse, or your cat will just become fearful of you.



Copyright © Alana Stevenson 2014

See also: My cat bites me, what can I do?, How To Play With Your Cat, Tips to Have a Happy Cat


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3 thoughts on “My Cat Suddenly Attacks Me, What Can I Do?”

  1. Hello, my cat isn’t a “singleton”, but rather one of two very playful brothers. They play and run around a lot. SO it doesn’t seem to be pent up aggression. Sometimes when I’m petting him, he’ll rub into me, purrr and all that good stuff, then out of no where he’ll attack my hand or face. I’ll jump up and scream because he has very sharp curved claws that slice easily. The last time he successfully got my face, he scared my nose pretty bad. Anyhow, he will run away, and ‘ll sit there and try to relax and not look at him, but he will attack me anyway, and almost always aim for my face, particularly the eye region. He doesn’t do this often, but it’s scary enough to make me slowly afraid to be affectionate with him. He has no other aggression towards me. He follows me around, sits in my lap and between my legs when I sleep at all other times. But it seems the second I start doing an serious petting or cuddling he get excited, and then aggressive. I’ve thought maybe I should just let him bite my hand and not yelp or something and just refrain from touching him at all and just get up and leave, but he will follow me and then jump up my back and hook his claws into my skin. It’s really horrible. It takes my boyfriend coming into the room for him to ‘heel’ as he calls it.

  2. HELP – 3 1/2 year old cat just started attacking my son and his friend.

    We are a family of 4, my wife and two kids 18 and 16. My cat is 3 1/2 years old and his

    name is Pablo. He is the smartest and cutest cat ever. ( in my opinion ). He is closest

    to me as he follows me everywhere, sleeps on my lap while I work from home. He has never

    since we got him as a kitten, bitten us or became violent until recently.

    Two weeks ago, my son and his friend where downstairs playing a video game in the TV room

    next to my office. My sons 16 year old friend was attacked by Pablo out of the blue. He

    sat on top of the couch for a while, then he started to make weird meow noises, then he

    went after my sons friend without any reason at all. He bit him and scratched him. He

    went to the Doctor and got antibiotics just in case. Pablo has all his shots and is

    updated and seen by the vet on a regular basis. We were just shocked that he did this.

    A week later, my son and his girlfriend was watching TV downstairs and I was a little

    weary, but I was next door this time in my office just in case. Pablo came downstairs,

    went on my sons lap, and wanted to be patted. Later he went on top of the couch and just

    started to watch them. They were horsing around and my son fell of the couch and stood up

    and Pablo attacked him. He bit and scratched him. He went to the doctors and also got


    At this point, I was just so shocked and had to consider the fact that there is something

    wrong with this situation. I even contemplated that I might have to put him down. This

    made me and my wife cry and I have not cried for over TEN years, He is my little buddy and

    so gentle and so cute. He even plays catch with me and he is so smart. But, these two

    incidents really scared all of us.

    The next day he was just normal Pablo. I want to take him into the vet, but I have to wait

    10 days as per the health units request. Because he bit someone, the health unit asked us

    to not let him outside for 10 days and to monitor him. Its just their policy and its the

    Law here.

    I think its something about downstairs and maybe something to do with my son. My wife and

    I and our daughter have had no issues. The two times he attacked, I bent down and picked

    him up and he never so much as scratched or hissed at me. He actually stopped as soon as

    he seen it was me. My son has played with him in the past and he even sleeps sometimes on

    his bed. I just don’t get it. He is actually on my lap right now sleeping away as I write


    If I had to choose between my son and Pablo, there is no choice to make. My kids and wife

    come first no matter what. I am just so sad that this even happened and I am trying to

    prevent it from happening again, because I will have no choice but to put him to sleep.

    Once the 10 days are up, I am taking him into another vet than my own because my vet was

    so cold and just said it will never change and in so many words, there is nothing to do

    but put up with it or put him to sleep. I want another opinion. He is so darn cute and

    smart and I love him so much. We all do including my son.

    I have also noticed that he is very protective about downstairs and when my son went

    downstairs afterwards, he followed him and meowed at him and then realized I was there

    also and he just went back upstairs. I cant keep my family from going downstairs. We

    seldom use it, but we just cannot stop from going down there to make him happy.

    I don’t know what to do. he acts normal around everyone now even my son, but he is very

    strange when people go down stairs. I can’t be with my son every time he goes downstairs. I don’t even know if this is the issue, but it happened twice downstairs. We just have a TV there and couch, and my office was there until I moved it upstairs when this happened to keep a close eye on him.

    There is no NEW pets in the area and Pablo is an INSIDE cat. We have no mice in the house also.

    PLEASE HELP. I do not want my son to get attacked again. If at all possible, I would love

    to keep Pablo.

    Thanks for all your help..


  3. HI Alana,

    Thank you so much for your reply. The issue with blocking downstairs is that its an open concept, no door going downstairs and his litter box and food is kept downstairs, so its hard to block him out.

    I really think you are on to something about him being upset or jealous when my son had girlfriend the first time, and his girlfriend the second time. Maybe now, my son just reminds him of those two occasions.

    Can you email me your rates: [email protected] as I will look into maybe having a consultation if the price is right. Money is definitely not a luxury for us at this moment.

    Thanks again for your help.


  4. Correction, Friend the first time, girlfriend the second time. Sorry. His friend got attacked the first time, and my son got attacked the second time.

  5. Hi, my name is tei, I have a 1 1/2 yr old female tabby named Gennaía. And a 3 yr old dog, Sophia. They play really well and love each other so much. But when my boyfriend and I leave out of town, we board our dog at my work( a doggy daycare / hotel) and someone checks in on my kitty. My cat screams and screams! Even if I just take my dog to work with me for the day or take her out to potty, she screams until we come back! Then throughout the day I will just be walking and she attacks my legs, biting me hard and clawing my legs. A few times my boyfriend would have to pull her off my legs. Its terrible! And as soon as we get her off, and I walk away she does it again! We play with her with strings, and pole toys, lasers, balls, the dog plays with her. I’m not sure what to do. My cousin suggested getting a kitten so that there is company for her at all times. I’m just afraid that could back fire and make her worse.

  6. Hi. My cat is about 10months old. I have another little cat that came to my house like 3 weeks ago. When i brought the little cat, my old cat was really angry and agressive. The new cat slept in a separate room for a few nights, but them we got them to get along and they even played together. My old cat was no longer ang;ry And it was fine for like a week

    Today i woke up and the old cat was in a corner of a room and when i tried to touch her she attacked me. She was acting just like when the little cat came home. She’s really angry at me and i dont understand why. Could she be sick? Or is she just moody? Can you help me please… oh she’s eating fine btw.
    Sorry about my english if there are any mistakes or something

  7. We found a kitten when it weighed only 12 oz. Its eyes were swollen like huge marbles, vet said it would be blind if we kept her. She tested negative for feline leukemia, so we kept her and had the vet treat her eyes and do shots, and had her fixed. Its now a year later, and for the last few months, she’s been attacking me to no end. Not just me, but I do seem to get it most often. She hides and pounces as we walk by. She zones in on me by listening for my voice, and pounces on me. She has drawn blood on my legs, arms, stomach and face. You know how on TV, raccoons land on peoples faces to attack? Yeah, she did that to me when I was sitting in a recliner. How can I get this behavior to stop? We have tried holding her by the back of neck, we have told her No Bite! We have used a squirt gun when she is running from the attack she just did.we have tried the calming spray, the pheromone collars and diffusers. I don’t want to declaw her because she uses her claws to back down from tall furniture since she can’t see how high up she is. I bought a thunder shirt to try, it should arrive this Friday. ,hoping this helps calm her down. Do you have an opinion on those shirts? And what would you suggest I do to get her to stop attacking?

  8. Hi Alana,
    I have a 1 1/2 year old cat named Catnip. I have had her since she was 3 months old (she was born a stray and I adopted her from an animal shelter). Originally, she and I lived in a muti-person, multi-animal house but about 9 months ago she and I moved into my new apartment and it has been just the 2 of us. Since then we have had a terrible relationship and I believe a lot of it stems from boredom. She can be a bit aggressive and at times unpredictable in her behavior day to day. From the moment I wake up she is constantly watching my every move ( i literally feel I am being stalked) and often runs to the spot that she thinks I am going to next and plants herself in my path causing me to stop short or trip over her. This causes me extreme anxiety in the morning when I’m getting ready for work because it is nonstop. I have tried to distract her by feeding her but once she has her fill she is right back to stalking/tripping me. Often I have to resort to putting her in a separate room so I can finish getting ready.

    I do have to mention that this is not the same behavior I have seen with other cats where they are constantly under their caregivers feet, rubbing on their legs etc. It appears to be more of a game to her than an act of affection.

    she is then home alone for 8 hrs while I am at work. When I return home I immediately feed her and I will play with her for 15 to 30 minutes using various cat toys that she enjoys interacting with.

    Sometimes, before or after play times, she will sneak up and bite my feet, toes, calf (whatever she can get) which catches me off guard and completely startles me. She will also come rubbing up on me which i interpret as wanting to be petted but after a few strokes she will turn around and bite my hand.Sometimes I react too quickly by shooing her away with my foot, spraying her with water or again, putting her in a separate room. I know these things have only lead her to mistrust me (as much as I do not trust her).

    I think it is also important to note that very often (several times a day) her tail is thrashing back and forth as though she is constantly in an annoyed state. This is the case in almost every scenario listed above.

    Every day I shuffle around the house on edge because her mood/behavior can be so unpredictable. There is a lot of tension between us at all times.

    How can we build our trust in each other again? How can I correct some of her behaviors that seem quite unacceptable?

  9. Hi!

    My male 5 year old cat (rescue, adopted at 10 months, had been trapped with it’s mama and litter-mates at 10 weeks. Mom was fixed and returned to her urban home) is very possessive of me, but shares well with my 11 year old female. Both are indoor-outdoor, great hunters, played with daily. The boy cat is very affectionate (head-butts to my forehead, nuzzles my face/neck, loves tummy rubs if done gently, and very strongly given face rubs. He will forcibly rub his face into your hand if the petting isn’t hard enough for his liking.) the other day I was giving him love and he got very into it. Even lifting his back legs up to make room for me to rub his belly, making himself fall over because he forgot he needed the legs to stand. While doing this he got so I to it he was nuzzling my face and asking for tummy rubs, twisting and squirming not knowing which he wanted more/first. Out of the blue he boxed my face and drew quite a bit of blood, but immediately went back to begging for rubs/pets etc. He never stopped purring and chirping while this happened. Did I just overstimulate him? In the years he’s been asking for this attention he’s always told me he’s “done” by switching his tail hard or just walking away. He’s never been aggressive/attacked me. I continued the attention (letting him set the firmness/etc, as always) but felt some anxiety he would do it again. He’s acted totally normal before and after that incident, and never hissed or flattened ears or any other “stop” signals, so I’m a bit confused.

    What do you think, or suggest? Should I just not let things get so wound up, despite his asking for intense attention? Or was it perhaps a one-off event?

    Thanks for your time!

  10. My cat is male not sure the age but hes a young cat and neutered. he randomly attacks me, he will keep trying to hurt me tell he gets me. im only asking for help because it duse not feel like hes playing it feels like hes trying to hurt me if i dont fix it soon my mom is going to have him put down but he only hurts me. what do i do?

  11. My cat does this too. He is a 7 month old neutered siberian kitten. He seeks me out and comes and sits on my knee and will lick my hands or my face and will sleep for maybe ten minutes. He will be extremely affectionate and then he starts to attack my hands. I take him off me and put him down, I have said ‘ouch’ loudly as recommended in the book how to raise a well adjusted cat and I have walked away from him also recommended, BUT then he will jump at me and bite. If I ignore him he comes after me and will jump at my head and bite. He has bitten me in the back of the head and drawn blood. Interestingly he does not use his claws on me. He has also bitten me on the face. I play with him with pole toys and he loves to fetch a ball. He has two large cat trees and there are bird feeders outisde the window at one of them for him to watch. He is on his own during the day and he is an indoor cat but I take him outside on a lead occasionally. I don’t know what to do to stop this behaviour. I need advice!

  12. Hi Alana,
    I’ve found quite I few good ideas through the other posts, but I wanted to throw my situation out there in case you have specific advice.

    My cat 10 year old cat Jake is a moody dude. He’s extremely needy and demanding, although I’ve done quite a bit to give him what he needs. The first problem was he used to wake me up daily at 5am, refusing to quit until he was fed. Then that wasn’t enough, I had to also be awake and up. He would cry and moan, knock things over, bat my face even.

    After 6 months of trying to change this habit, I got an automatic feeder. I needed sleep desperately and so did my boyfriend. And that seemed to help. For awhile…

    As part of this particular problem, I got tons of toys and worked playing more into our routine. Going 1. play 2. eat 3.sleep to try and work with Jake’s need to hunt. 6months later and he is back to excessive crying. I bought a feliaway diffuser recommended by my vet, which also seems to do something. (warning to other cat owners, one diffuser I got had a burning smell- check reviews before you buy)

    Problem now is after all of these attempts, he still is so demanding. I’ve used a spray bottle to stop him, which I see you don’t recommend. Is the damage done there? Just today he was purring a ton after lots of attention and then suddenly hugged my arm and bit me as hard as he could.

    I am at a loss- I’m tired of making excuses for his horrible behavior and I feel like I’ve put a lot of time and energy into trying to give this grumpy guy a happy lifestyle. I feel like he was pretty well behaved even until maybe 3 years ago. All of his misbehaving is matched by some really sweet and lovable moments, too. Is there such a thing as kitty bi-polar?

    So- now- I have new 2 roommates moving in at the end of the month- they have a female cat who’s extremely docile. Jake has met other animals, cats and dogs a few times before and has never been aggressive. In fact he couldn’t care less. I’ve read up on how to introduce them, but I’m terrified that his behavior is going to find a new way to get even worse for kitties and new humans alike.

    Best case scenario, maybe he likes the company? I do work during the day, but he’s rarely alone because my current roommate is around (he gets the occasional weirdo random attack, too)

    Sorry for the overwhelming range of issues. Any suggestions? Are they connected? I’ll put the spray bottle away, but what can I do that isn’t worse somehow? Does the addition of another cat sound like a horrible idea?

    Thanks a lot,

  13. Hi!

    I’ve been reading the whole thread in search of a similar situation as mine but I couldn’t find something so I wanted to tell my story and see if there’s some advice I could follow.

    I’ve got a 2yr old cat named Myc. He lived with me for a year but I got a new job on august in another city and couldn’t find an apartment for both of us so I left him in my parents house.

    He’s always been a bit aggressive and territorial and when he was a kitten he used to play bitting my hands. or everyone’s ankles.

    The point is I went home to my parent’s house for Christmas and the moment I got there he started following me everywhere and staring at me and suddenly he just viciously attacked me (as I was taking his food plate to fill it) I had to run for my life and lock myself in the bathroom. He never attacked my parents or brother. But now I’m terrified of him and need to lock him away when i want to get out of the room because if he sees me he attacks.

    My family is in love with the cat and I really like him too, but spending my holiday week lock up in a room isn’t my idea of fun.

    Hope you have some advice I could follow, thanks.

  14. Hello,

    I’m having a problem with my boyfriend’s cat, “Fluffy”. A bit of backstory: he was found dying on the streets after someone threw him out, and was taken from the pound and nursed back to health by a foster mom. Right now he’s a little over 1.5 years old and probably has feline herpes as he sneezes a lot.

    He resided at my boyfriend’s for about a month until my boyfriend had to leave town for a long weekend. So we brought him to my apartment, which he seems to love. He also knows me, and seems very happy here. He’s a cuddly Velcro cat that wants to sit on your lap and be with you all the time.

    Fluffy started sneezing right before my boyfriend brought him over. After a couple of days he wasn’t looking good, so I took him to the vet and he was given an antibiotic shot, Lysine, eye ointment and liquid meds, as well as agreement by the vet that he probably has feline herpes. Needless to say, he doesn’t like getting the meds, but for whatever reason he’s suddenly become very aggressive and over the past two days has been running from me when I have to give them.

    At first I thought I was overstimulating him as during petting he’d gently nip at me. So I’ve been very careful, but his biting has gotten harder and harder over the past few days. He’s finally feeling better, and has been extremely playful. After we played several times yesterday, he was an absolute angel, purring and cuddling with me the whole night. But tonight he was on my chest and suddenly bit me very hard on the upper arm (which wasn’t even moving). I tried to push him away and he leaned up against my side, refusing to leave. We played later, which I thought would tire him out. After sitting on the bed with me and curling up looking very happy, I reached over to pet him and he tried to bite me. I exclaimed and withdrew my hand. Then he came closer to me and after a couple of minutes I stupidly patted his head and he tried to bite AGAIN. So I stopped all contact and he came over to my lap and bit me. And then sat on my laptop specifically so I had to pay attention and when I tried to get him off jumped over and bit my upper arm again.

    So by this point, I’m realizing this isn’t simply overstimulation. But what is the problem?
    • Is he angry? Maybe over the meds?
    • Is he too full of energy? I don’t think he’s felt this well or gotten so much attention since before he was dumped on the streets. This started after I started giving him Lysine supplements and after he was on antibiotics for a few days.
    • Is he playing? He’s high energy so we run all over the place and play peek-a-boo and he finds me, but I never play with my hands and it never gets rough. If it does I stop so it discourages him. Mainly we use string.
    • Is he hunting me? Has running around while we play made him think I’m prey?

    Thanks in advance for your advice! He’s a wonderful cat and I know we can fix this as long as I understand what’s going on.

  15. Hi Alana,

    I have a nearly 4 month old unspayed female kitten. Her biting and play aggression is very much less now but she does this weird thing from the time we got her a small cushion to wrestle with (that was when she was 2 months and the cushion was her first wrestle buddy) and she does it only to me. She’ll wrestle with her cushion, bite it and then bring it near my leg, wrestle some more and then suddenly jump and pounce on my leg with paws all stretched out and her mouth open. So yeah, I do get scratch marks from her teeth but no broken skin. I really have no idea how we can stop this. I have tried walking away, saying no (she understands this word), etc. but she’ll still do this only to me. She has other toys and wrestle buddies, but she does this only with that damn cushion! 😐

    Otherwise she is a very well-behaved kitten.


  16. We have 4 cats of our own. Our friends have 1 cat, 1 dog who get along pretty well.
    However, when we were at our friends place for dinner, the cat (she’s about 4 years) who never hissed or growled at us before took a dislike to my husband and myself. The cat did not like the sound of my husband’s voice and I’m not sure why she growled at me. She’s an indoor kitty and when our friend held her so I could use the restroom, she scratched her face. Any advise? All of us are baffled.

  17. Hello Steve,

    Unfortunately I am in a similar situation with my 2 year old female cat. She has started attacking my father all of a sudden and if we try to defend him she attacks us too. We recused her as a kitten when she was about 2-3 weeks old. I would like to know how did u deal with Pablo in the end. Your help would be highly appreciated.

  18. My cat will be very happy, full, just played with…If my leg is barely off the side of the bed I’ll be looking at my laptop and he’ll attack full force and draw blood. Just now my booty was not even hanging off the side and he clawed the heck out of my back side and it hurts and bleeding. I treat him like a king. I’m afraid to hang any legs or arms off the bed. He’ll also attack me full force with my back turned while playing my keyboard quietly. I have scars still healing cuts! Otherwise it’s hard to believe but he is so loving and all over me .
    He’s 18 months old unneutered and rarely sprays so I can live with him fine. Been just him and I his whole life in and big house. White long haired male with orange eyes and I have friends over maybe once or 2x a month. No changes to his nvironment. What am I doing wrong and BTW neutering is a last resort for me. I want badly to keep him in tact. Thanks for any good tips!

  19. Hi Alana,

    My 12 year-old cat is a lap cat who loves to be pet and comes when he is called. His favorite thing to do is get attention and love from me. He has never been aggressive and sleeps with me every night. Last night he slept next to me and got lots of love. After he got up and walked away, I rolled over to go to sleep. Just as I was about to fall asleep he viciously attacked my head with teeth and claws. There was a lot of power behind this attack, leaving deep cuts from teeth and claws in multiple places on my scalp. It was so bad that blood was dripping down my neck from multiple places. It was also a quick attack as I screamed and he ran away after doing the damage. This was a very unnerving experience that has left me afraid of him and confused as he has never shown aggression before. I’m afraid to sleep around him now. If I lock him out of the bedroom he cries and scratches at the door all night. What should I do? What could have caused this attack? I also have another 7 year old cat and a big dog. They all get along; however, occasionally the 2 cats will fight. Please advise!

    Thank You,

  20. My cat is an indoor/outdoor 2yr. old tabby. He loves my husband and gets along great with our dog. He spends the majority of the day outside playing and hunting mice/lizards, etc, and then comes inside at dinner time where he stays the rest of the night. When we first got him about 6mos ago, he loved to cuddle with me and always let me pet him and pick him up without any issue. Now, he attacks me out of nowhere and even sometimes draws blood. He doesn’t do this to anyone other than me. I’ve tried lightly tapping him on the nose while saying “no”, squirting him with a water bottle, and shooing him away but it only makes it worse. I’ve also tried to grab a toy when it happens and see if that distracts him instead but he still continues to attack me and even backs me into corners. All I want to do is love him and yet all he seems to want is to fight me! I am 100% unwilling to have him de-clawed or to give him up so we need to find a solution because I don’t want this to continue. Maybe he’ll grow out of it? Any tips are appreciated. Thank you!

  21. I really need to know what is wrong with my Bombay. He is about a couple months old. He would meow to get petted. When I pet him then stop he starts kneading. When he does that I try to fix my clothes or pet him he would bite my arm or hand. He has never acted this way before. What’s wrong or up with him?

  22. maybe he thinks the sofa is his, or is jealous of your sons company, or is showing of,, let him outside, sorry for attacks

  23. Hello I have 2m old kitten who attacks hands (scratch n bite) when play with her, when don’t want to be picked up, when trying to feed her and now she started to hunt me.. I’m clueless some times she purr when attacking n trying to bite my face, ignoring didn’t work, spray water didn’t work hiss works only 1/10 and screaming aaaaaaw is totally ignored I have no idea whats going on with her and what to do in same time she want be close to me n lies next to me (after bite she got lied cuddle in my legs then approach my face purr n starts to eat my hair.. Then 5 min later bite me again… I have her for a couple of days now and dunno what she wants or how explain to not bite n scratch

  24. I have a 4 year old make cat that was the sweetest thing ever. He purred, played, licked me, slept with me…everything. The last 6 months he is aggressively attacking and biting me to the point of drawing blood. I will just be sitting and he pounces. Nothing has changed it the household for the last 3 years and I have a very set routine that is consistent. I have no ide what is going on but I am ready to get rid of him if I can’t figure out why he is doing this. My home is very quiet so I know it isn’t him being afraid.

  25. I have a 13 year old cat that I’ve had since 2 weeks old. She is a sister (I have both cats since that time) She is very loving and loves constant attention. She even sleeps up under my neck when I’m laying down. Lately she has gotten very aggressive toward her “sister cat”. She wants constant attention. If I show any attention to her sister cat, she chases her away. Last evening, I was playing a game on my IPAD. She wanted attention and got aggressive with me when I didn’t pay it to her. She bit me and then swatted at me…and then I got the “stare down”. I yelled at her and she ran. The has always play bite, but this kind of scared me since she broke the skin this time and seemed angrier than normal. Not sure what to do. I love my cat and I’m not sure what may be going thru her little kitty head. Can you help?

  26. Denise, you may want to take her to vet and get her checked out. When behavior changes, it can be an indicator of a health issue.

  27. My cat attacked me 5 minutes ago for no reason.She is really sweet but she is 2 years old what should I do?

  28. My 1yearold cat is an indoor cat , but to keep him chilled I take him outside on his lead everyday and it definitely helps . We even have a log /cat house that he can go in outside and play . It’s a good way to calm him down if he’s in crazy play mode ?

  29. My cat is a male, turned 2 years old this year. He is the single cat and pet we have and he has been biting me and drawing blood.
    My dad usually slaps it with a flip flop when he misbehave (gets on the table when we are about to eat, jumps on the counter, tries to drink from cups…), My mom yells at him when he misbehave though. But he bites only me, I’m the one who usually give him baths, feed him, pet him, let him sleep on my bed. I have noticed that he does that when I am evasive. Meaning that I don’t let him come into my room ( I close the door while he walks towards it while I’m inside) or when I don’t give him food while I’m eating, usually dinner. So, as soon as I have my back turned he runs and “attacks” me by biting me and he did this just a few minutes ago and his canine got in deep enough so I glimpse at my flesh.

    Does anyone know how I can make him stop doing that without giving in to whatever he wants to do?

  30. My cat is completely calm, and then viciously attacked my mother and I. We put her in a dark room for three days and she got better. Then out of nowhere she started yowling, hissing and growling. My mom is saying that the last solution is putting her down, but she’s not usually an aggressive cat. What should we do?

  31. My daughter’s cat attacks her every time she leaves for a few days. The cat is fine if she just leaves for the day and comes back at night but if she stays away, she always attacks when she comes back. Once she attacks and draws blood, she is over it and won’t attack again. My daughter has tried giving her lots of attention, a little attention, avoiding her, and giving her treats. If my daughter avoids the cat, it may take a day or more for her to attack. It really doesn’t matter what she does, the cat is going to attack her at least once as if to punish her for being gone. There are five of us in the household, two adults, three children. The cat stays far away from everyone but my daughter and one son. When the kids are gone, we are still here so she isn’t alone. You would think she would forget about it after my daughter has been home a while, but she never does. How do we get her to stop attacking?

  32. My cat does this all the time. Even in my sleep he’ll playfully bite my side. He’s saying. If you won’t play, I’ll make you play. He’s only two so I’m enjoying his playfulness before he retires to just a lazy old cat.

  33. Hi! I have a kitten who’s just over 4 months old now. He is the only animal in our family right now. I’ve had quite a few cats before him and raised them from kittens and have been able to curb play agression no problem in the past but with this little guy… wow, is he ever king of the jungle… in his mind anyway lol! He has some Bengal in him so I wonder if some of his extra agression has to do with that? Either way, is what’s going on. I think its play agression but it goes way too far very quickly. He will usually bite one of us out of no where at which point I’ve been saying no in a sturn voice and offering him a toy and praising him when he takes the toy. He more often than not then drops the toy and puts his ears back again and begins to aggressively stalk me. I’ve tried ignoring him and leaving the room but he will follow or chase then lunge at you. It’s like hes trying to establish his dominance over everyone and unwilling to let any play session end in what seems like him losing. I’ve got so many bites and scratches up my arms and legs!! Ouch!! I’ve begun doing a kitty time out by locking him in my bedroom for 4 or 5 minutes to calm down. It seems to work but it’s not stopping the behavior from happening to begin with.
    Any tips??
    Thanks so much 🙂

  34. Hi my kitten Raven is not even a year old and today she been so weird , like she is a daddy’s little girl but she doesn’t like me at all, so today when I was running a bath she came in and didn’t clean herself at all btw we have her older sister who mothered her when she was only a few weeks old she hasn’t been neutered yet and I picked her up to go to sink get a wet cloth and clean her but she likes water it sounds weird but she has jumped in the shower with me as a kitten as I leave the door open as it’s just me and my partner , so I picked her up and she tried to bite me in my neck don’t get me wrong this weren’t the first time she tried to bite me she attacked her sister and made her sister bleed and when she went to bite me I knew so I dropped her and she landed in the bath (btw I felt terrible when I tried to get her out she was hissing at me and meowing at me and then just stared at the wall for a few minutes I went and got a towel and hid her claws and extra as I got her on the sofa in the towel I started drying her and she tried to claw me a few times she is also a indoor cat but I don’t think she is as both of her parents are outside cats, so I she jumped off me and started meowing at the bedroom door so I went to pick her up and bring her back in as I wasn’t finished but when I sat down she tried to bite me again so I let her go I opened the bedroom door and I left one of my pillows on the floor and also. Put the towel on top and btw she never done this anything like this then she came in and hissed at me and tried to attack my feet went to the window and was trying to get out ??? I said to her in a high pitch voice I’m sorry for dropping her in the bath and now she is asleep I need to know what’s up ??

  35. Hi my cat is 7years old and the last 18 months she has started to bites me and puts her claws in my skin it hurts and she really draws blood what can I do to stop her she never used to do this can u please tell me what to do about this as we love her so much but she is very spoiled she gets about 6 massages a day and cries until she does get one

  36. My cat is 13 years old and we have a second cat who is 10 years old so they have been together for a long time. My cat has always been intimidated around children or large crowds and if she got upset with me would bite my legs or feet but we dealt with that taking her to a vet and had a large tumor removed from her stomach along with an emergency hysterectomy. She seemed to go back to her loving self again but still we have to watch her when the grandbabies come for a visit. The last few months it has gotten progressively worse. One moment she is lying on my legs purring then she gets down and suddenly attacks me( and only me) I’m so marked up it’s bad. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong or what the problem could be.

  37. My cat is 15 months old, he’s an outdoor/indoor cat: he’s allowed out during the day and he comes when called in before sundown. Recently my cat over the last 3 or 4 months has started attacking out of nowhere. Just now I was sat on my carpet trying to fix the tv and he started biting my ankles. This is a reoccurring problem: he’s attacking everyone incl. biting the next-door neighbor’s children when they try to pet him, both when someone approaches him and when he approaches the person. Its been happening with increasing frequency and its starting to make me fearful of petting/being near him as he’ll be purring on your lap then painfully biting your wrist the next second. Before this he would never do this, He would vocalize if he wanted to be let down or got uncomfortable but now he just attacks. There have been a few changes: recently my family went away for a month traveling and left him here with our neighbors as cat sitters. When we came back he had lost a lot of weight and had fleas, about a month after we got back he was bitten by another cat as well which makes me think it a territorial thing? While we have so many theories as to why he’s now so aggressive, we really aren’t sure how to correct it.

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